Can a guy notice if you're a virgin?
Annika, Upplands Väsby

Shane : No, I don't think so.
Mark : Not by just looking at you. Don't worry, it's nothing wrong being a virgin. When you meet the right guy and feel ready, it'll be a really nice moment for you.

What are the three most important things with your dreamgirl?
Hanna, Göteborg

Shane : The three most important qualities with my wife is the personality, that she makes me laugh, and that she's attracted to me and that she smells lovely. I mean it smells clean and fresh. It's horrible with girls who smells like dirt and sweat and tries to hide it with a heavy perfume instead of taking care of her hygiene.
Mark : I agree that the hygiene is really important! And there has to be a spark between us...and she has to have a nice bum..ha ha

I've had sex with a guy who revealed that he's gay. I'm 17 years old and he's 20. I'm still in love with him but he doesn't seem to like girls.
Frida, Stockholm

Shane : That's a very awkward situation. I'm afraid I don't think there's much you can possibly do. You might have to find someone else there are plenty of guys out there!

I just started high school and in my class there's 28 boys and only two girls. The other girl has already been accepted by the rest of the class, but not me. I get a lot of comments and hassle from the guys. What should I do, I don't want to switch school.
Terese, Linköping

Shane : Be yourself, be tough and stand up for yourself. Ask them why they're hassling you. If it gets too hard you should talk with a teacher, principal or your parents.

Why are lads so interested in boobs?
Lilli, Norsborg

Mark : Cause we don't have any!
Shane : It's strange, but we guys just love seeing some cleavage, dream about cute breasts and cuddle them. And they're also a bit private, girls don't show them all the time. That just makes it more exciting.
Mark : But if we had boobies it wouldn't have been as fun...

My boyfriend has been unfaithful! I saw him snogging another girl behind a pizzeria and I stormed out and gave him a split lip! After that he changed school because he started to hate me, but now I want him back. What should I do?
Janine, Göteborg

Mark : It doesn't sound like you have a chance of having a successful relationship, seriously.
Shane : Move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater, he's nothing to have.

A guy in my class was bullied and I didn't have the courage to tell the bullies to stop. What should I do, I feel so sorry for him.
Greta, Luleå

Mark : Tell a teacher, but demand to be anonymous. It's good that you're doing it for the guy's sake. It's not that hard and you'll feel good knowing that you've helped him.
Shane : If you don't tell then you'll regret it later in life.

I'm afraid to tell my friends that I'm gay. How am I supposed to do it without them thinking I'm a wuss that they don't want to be with?
Stefan, Stockholm

Mark : If they're real friends they'll understand and not think different of you, or else they're just fake. Tell someone you trust first.

When I'm at a party I always do a lot of things with the guys. Now people are starting to talk behind my back. What should I do?
Miss Kiss Kiss, Hova

Mark : Well, it's pretty easy to start talking behind one's back if you're not keeping yourself to one guy. You probably should do that and absolutely not jump in bed with different guys, it's both dangerous and stupid. Snogging, well, that's not that bad but don't go further until you meet the right one.
Shane : Unprotected sex with different partners will only lead to either you getting pregnant or get venereal diseases . It's nothing you do for fun¨.